Relationship Distance

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What Is an Affair? For many couples, greater emotional connectivity coincides with the placing of limits on outside relationships and, more specifically, a commitment to sexual exclusivity. Although genital contact with others is usually off limits, some couples renegotiate this agreement if, for example, one partner becomes seriously ill. There are also cultural variations in these patterns; some cultures, for example, tolerate, if not encourage, men to seek sexual partners outside the marital relationship as a measure of manhood. Finally, other couples may agree to an “open” marital relationship that acknowledges and allow for affairs outside the primary relationship. Given the increased risk for contracting incurable sexually transmitted diseases (for example, genital herpes or  HIV  disease) in today’s world, however, there is probably less flexibility around this issue now than there was perhaps 20 years ago. For our purposes, an affair may be defined as an emotionally

Some Questions You Should Ask Your Partner :-- 1) If all of life's constraints were eliminated, what would you want to do every day? 2) How long do you see our relationship lasting? 3) How important is marriage to you? How important are children and family? Do you have a personal timeline set for such things? 4) How would you like for your life to change in the next five years? Do you see me as a part of this change? 5) What about me stands out the most to you? 6) Do you have needs in your life that are not being met? What can I do to help with those needs? 7) Would you remain with me if you discovered that I couldn't bear children? If I had a criminal record? If I had a lot of debt? If I had a terminal disease? 8) Would you stay with me if I were in an accident that scarred my appearance for life? 9) Have I ever hurt you in any way that you haven't told me about? 10) What thoughts make you unhappy? 11) What could I do that would make you believe tha

I actually keep a list in my wallet and do one each week: 1.       Fix her a bubble bath with candles and flowers all over the bathroom, music, and blow up tub pillow for her head.  2.       Foot massages while watching TV. 3.       Full body massage - play Enya or other relaxing music, candles, scents, etc.  4.       Flowers for no reason, delivered by you to her office. If she works and you can visit her at her office, get the spare key to her car and leave notes inside for when she gets in to come home. 5.       Small WRAPPED gift for no reason - again, presented by you at her office is the best. 6.       Message in a bottle thrown in pool or bathtub. 7.       Write "I love you" with soap on shower door and when it fogs up she can read it. 8.       Post-it notes with little sayings all over - the bathroom, her make-up area, car, etc. 9.       Write her a love letter, or fiction story based on your romantic life. 10.   Put on her